By Mark Rosmar
LOTS of men often ask me if meeting women on the street and in public isn’t gradually becoming obsolete in today’s modern society with the growing popularity of the Internet. My answer to that is: Have vehicles become obsolete since the growing popularity of aviation?
The truth is that the Internet serves it purpose. Is there really any method that can compare to being able to meet all kinds of women — from as close as the girl next door to as far as the four corners of the globe — all in a single click? Probably not.
But just like everything else, the Internet as a method for meeting women has its advantages and disadvantages. Firstly, there is no comparison to seeing a woman in the flesh who you admire and plotting the course to meeting her and ultimately becoming a part of her life. Of course this too can be done on the Internet; but one big difference on the Internet, the woman is virtual.
Over the past few months I have taken a look at a few of the sites out there which have crept up to fill this void which introduce men and women to each other. They all seem to serve their purpose. As a matter of fact, I have known people who have met their perfect matches on some of these sites and have even gone on to do the ultimate.
On the other hand, I am all too familiar with people who have come away from the Internet experience so beaten, broke, frustrated and battered because they have been disappointed, disillusioned and let down — by the photo collectors (those e-women who only collect photographs of people they “meet” on the Net) and those women who supply fake photographs that bear no resemblance to who they actually look like.
Then there are those who, like Miss Haversham from the old novel “Great Expectations”, having been spurned and burned by relationships in the past, set out to trawl the Net causing as much pain as possible to every man whom she happens to come across. The Internet is full of these women.
In the age of political correctness and women’s liberation, these women are more than likely wreaking vengeance on the spineless men of the net as vengeance for the absence of men approaching them off of it.
I have come to verify that experiences on the Internet aren’t too different for the women either.
However, there’s one caveat for the fairer sex: the men that these ladies hope to and do attract are so desperate for attention and anything else on offer that they are willing to jump through every hoop which the women put in front of them so that they can have the chance to be with these women. These men are willing to pander (virtually and really) to these women’s every need, and numerous Net-women have to practically fight these characters off with a stick.
Some of the women seem like the perfect women who you really would want to meet and introduce to mother, but then you realise that you have been more or less automatically eliminated as soon you read the profile. Now, that’s honesty. But what are you then supposed to do? Run away with your tail between your legs or stick around, call the bluff, face the challenge and try to convince her otherwise?
Then there are the ones that you never hear from — and those are the high-quality ones.
I know a single friend of mine whose phone was always ringing off the hook with calls from these women, but he meets few of them and has never got past “first base”. We figured it was because he was giving these women too much “special consideration” on his web space and profile. After he ceased that, desperate practice all this has started to change.
Look, the Internet can be and is a fun place to meet women, and it seems like this will remain so for quite some time. However, it is helpful not to take the women who you meet out there too seriously —at least not until you get personally to know them.
One thing that men must remember is that, on the Internet, it is easy for any man to “approach” any woman and tell her anything. But it takes a special man to actually approach a woman in person.
A lot of the skills that will prove very helpful if you really want to get into this thing you can find in the book, “The Lazy Man’s Guide to Seduction: How To Meet & Seduce Today’s Modern Women”. It’s an information-packed guide about approaching, meeting and seducing women in the modern world and puts you at a definite advantage when it comes to building proper relationships with women. It will save men loads of time in their online as well as offline pursuits with women.
Mark Rosmar is the owner of http://www.lazy-seduction.info. His website is geared for men who are interested in meeting and seducing women along with the landmark book, "The Lazy Mans Guide To Seduction." This article was sources from articlecity.com
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