Breastfeeding Beyond The First Year(Part 3/3)

BREASTFEEDING BEYOND THE FIRST YEAR (Part 3/3)
It may pose a unique set of challenges, but overcoming them provides dividends for your baby, writes a mother who shares her experience

By Anita Daubars | Reprinted with permission from Today’s Parents Magazine

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BREASTFEEDING & FERTILITY
Lactation delays the return of a woman’s menstrual periods after birth. This lactational amenorrhea lasts for varying periods of time in different women, averaging about 14.6 months postpartum in mothers who totally breastfeed their babies for six months and thereafter introduce solids gradually.

The length of lactational amenorrhea is largely determined by the baby’s breastfeeding pattern: is breastfeeding token in nature and scheduled, with solid being introduced at an early age, or is it ad lib and round-the clock, with a later introduction to solids and with baby satisfying his nutritional and his sucking needs at the breast.

Breastfeeding has a contraceptive effect as it suppresses ovulation. Because of the uncertainty of when ovulation will begin again, nursing mothers are encouraged to find other means of contraception. As the nursling nurses less and consumes more food, a mother’s chances of conceiving increase.

Mother of two Irene Tan continued to express her breast milk for her toddler for several months after he had weaned from direct breastfeeding because of its health benefits. Another mother continued nursing her toddler who had food allergies because breast milk was nutritionally wholesome and nursing helped to soothe her child when she developed allergic reactions to suspect foods.

NURSING THROUGH PREGNANCY & TANDEM NURSING
When a nursing mother finds herself pregnant, she is faced with the decision of continuing to breastfeed through the pregnancy or weaning.

She needs to consider the following: her own parenting values and needs; the part breastfeeding plays in her relationship with the nursling; the nursling’s emotional needs and other nutritional and immunological considerations.

Pregnant nursing mothers face breastfeeding challenges such as sore nipples, breastfeeding agitation and a reduction in milk supply because of hormonal changes.

Ways to cope include limiting breastfeeds and supplementing feeding with other milk.

Tandem nursing is closely related to the practice of nursing through a subsequent pregnancy. Tandem nursing refers to nursing two or more children of different ages at the same time; this may not be physically at the same instant, but one after another.

Advantages of tandem nursing that mothers cite include an easier transition to being a big brother or sister and a tender relationship between siblings right from the start.

The biggest obstacle for extended breastfeeding mothers is criticism from others; instead of giving mothers advice, often, affirming them and expressing confi dence in their ability to make good choices is the most helpful.

A mother nursing her toddler needs encouragement; she may find that, among babies similar in age to her own, her baby is the only one still nursing. For such a mum, it is sometimes a lonely journey and it is crucial that she belongs to a community of women who nurse older babies.

Many a mother has been encouraged to stay the course of breastfeeding because of her friendships with other nursing mothers.

Many believe that children whose dependency needs have been met outgrow these needs and achieve independence. When they are able to do this at their own pace, they tend to be more secure than children force into independence before they are ready.

Source: Breastfeeding Beyond The First Year(Part 3/3)